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The Occasional Dr. Duffy Dose
 
 
The best time to plant a tree was 20 yrs ago. The second best time is now.
Chinese Proverb


Oh, the degree to which we can lament our missed opportunities.... and all of those great decisions that we could have made if we had had the foresight.

Yes, it’s absolutely true that if we would have planted that tree 20 years ago, we would have had a full grown tree with all of its glorious fruits. But we didn't...for all of the various reasons we had at the time… or just a lack of awareness of possibilities. 

So, today we have a choice.  We can continue to “should” on ourselves  OR we can start anew… rev up our energy in the magnificent NOW and live our lives as fully as we can from this day forward.

What “tree” are you willing to plant today? What are you willing to start or do differently?

Warm regards,

Dr. Duffy 
 

 

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Difficulties are soul shaping...they can be lessons that lead us to know who we are.
Jean Shinoda Bolen


As we mark the tenth anniversary of 9/11 and mourn the thousands of our fellow Americans who so wrongfully died, we know what difficulty is.

We also know what difficulty is in a more general way. Our own birth brings a certainty of pain and loss. That is inevitable.

What is not inevitable is our response to it.

May we accept that we can't escape difficulty in life, but we can look at it straight in the eye and say, "ah, I embrace you as I embrace joy... and I remain open to you as my compassionate teacher."

Life is always worth living.

With appreciation,

Duffy

 

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